Straight Talk

A Good Enough Cook

Anything worth doing is worth doing badly.
G. K. Chesterton

I wasn’t always a cook. Heck, many would argue that I’m not a cook now ;-). Still I cook pretty much everyday and have for about a decade now. So am I good candidate for the next cooking reality show? Hardly. Instead I find that I have become a “Good Enough Cook”. Like my mother, and her mother before her, and her mother before her.

A Reluctant Cook

As a kid and young adult I was a junk-food junky. Then I had a baby. Like many young mothers before me I developed a keen interest in healthy food. It soon became crystal clear that to have healthy food I would need to cook.  But I didn’t know the first thing about cooking. Well, maybe how to bake box-mix brownies. So I set out to learn what healthy food was and how to prepare it. I wish I could say the path was smooth, that I immediately produced marvelous dishes that my family adored and begged me to make. I wish I could. That was my girlish fantasy anyway. But instead the path was littered with boulders the size of cars.

I soon discovered that interest in healthy food was pretty low in my house. I discovered that there were too many to count philosophies about what exactly healthy food was. I discovered that making the creations I found in cookbooks was difficult given the time constraints of my full-time job and the care of an rambunctious toddler. So I was in a fix. I wasn’t about to go back and didn’t know how to go forward. So I did the only thing I did know how to do. I forged ahead in fits and starts. And in so doing, I discovered that being a “Good Enough Cook” will get you most of the way to where you want to be.

What is a Good Enough Cook?

A Good Enough Cook isn’t cooking with the single-minded goal of producing a masterful meal. A Good Enough Cook has broader goals than a single delicious meal.  They are:

  • Providing wholesome, healthy, satisfying food for the family, all the time.
  • Keeping the amount of time spent on cooking within reasonable limits.
  • Keeping the cost of food within the family’s means.
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What we’re up against

This is the classic conundrum. The riddle of all riddles: Do you want it good quality, fast, or cheap? It’s generally agreed that you can only have two, and we’re trying to get all three at once. And I don’t know about you, but I’m not about to give up 🙂 But, it does help to ease some of the pressure to achieve perfection to realize that doing them all would amount to a miracle, and decide on some sort of personal truce with the problem. Personally I use the old 80/20 rule:

  • About 80% of our food fits in the guidelines.  Some compromises are made to both the budget and picky eaters.
  • Prepare about 80% of the food we eat.  And about half of our meals are quick meals.  They are not super-nutrient dense and there isn’t a lot of variety on the table.  The remaining meals can be made on less hectic days.
  • Seeking win/win ways to get wholesome local food more affordably.


What the Good Enough Cook is Up Against Culturally

In your Mom’s day every home had a Good Enough Cook.  They had to or they would starve.  It was a world without fast food, frozen dinners, and a wide choice of restaurants.   Grocery stores were small by today’s standards and didn’t have much in the way of prepared food.  On Sunday blue laws were in effect, preventing the grocery stores and restaurants from opening.  So Mom cooked and everyone eagerly awaited dinner, not because her meals out-shown Julia Child‘s but because they were hungry and the food was good.

Now each member of the family can escape to the nearest fast food joint if they get the least bit hungry.  There are junk food temptations every where they go and the more they succumb the more they favor the flavor of junk food.  There’s junk food at school.  These are problems of which we are all well aware.  But there is also problem of morale that effects the Good Enough Cook alone that is a pretty recent development: the culture of the celebrity chef and cooking as entertainment.  I know, I know there are good things that have come out of this.  But I can’t help but think that cooking as entertainment has discouraged many from cooking by setting higher standards than the average budget and time bound cook can attain.  Several shows ridicule participants for failed efforts that are still far better than a kitchen novice is likely to achieve.  Some have started to imitate this with people in their day-to-day lives.  You’ll see it on sitcoms.  In Mom’s day this would have been unthinkably rude.  And it’s very discouraging to both the novice and the Good Enough Cook alike.

In the face these difficulties it’s easy to feel discouraged.  But every incremental change you are able to make makes a difference.  So chin up Good Enough Cooks!  Stand tall and be proud!

10 thoughts on “A Good Enough Cook

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  2. I really like your idea of the “good enough cook.” That’s what I strive for, although I’ve never put it into words before. I cook simple meals, most of which come out pretty well, but ultimately they succeed because they fulfill the purpose of keeping us well-nourished without taking a ton of time or money. The only draw-back is that I don’t feel very confident cooking for other people. I’m content eating my own cooking, but I’m not sure how my standards compare to other people’s, so I always get nervous that they won’t like what I make! Maybe that will pass in time, though – I’ve only been cooking full-time for about the last four years.


  3. I absolutely agree with you. I limit myself to one time-consuming meal, and the rest of the time, I prepare simple nourishing meals. For example, roast chicken dinner for two days, then soup made from the broth and leftover meat – that’s what I did the last few days. It doesn’t have to be fancy, it doesn’t have to be elaborate. If you are a beginner cook, do what my husband did when he cooked for me for a whole year: protein, side, veggie, repeat. Vary the protein, side and veggie. It wasn’t that exciting, but he was able to do it, and we were able to avoid the pitfalls of processed foods.


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